Because He Is Your Relative
Because He Is Your Relative “You have just betrayed him. You murdered his seventy sons on one stone and crowned Abimelech—the son of his maidservant—king over Shechem’s leaders, simply because he is your relative.” (Judges 9:18 MSG) Gideon had many sons—seventy in all—born to different wives. But there was also Abimelech, the son of a maidservant. After Gideon’s death, Abimelech exploited his maternal ties, persuading his mother’s relatives to back him. With their support, he slaughtered his brothers—seventy lives cut down in one brutal act—while only one escaped. And why did they stand with him? Not because he was the most capable, not because he was righteous—but because he was their relative . That phrase— “your relative” —carries more weight than we often admit. It has justified poor decisions, protected wrongdoing, and elevated loyalty above truth. It has cost nations progress, weakened institutions, and blurred the line between justice and bias. When relationship becomes the s...