Marry again

Marry again 

"Now Abraham married again. Keturah was his new wife, (Gen.25.1 NLT)

Starting all over takes an amount of courage not possessed by most people. For some, it is easier to just capitulate to the pain, the loss and endure the pain. When in fact, this can rob you of the much need joy of starting something new. There is something about the breath of fresh air, the cry of a new born baby, the wedding bells of a new couple. You can marry again. 

This is especially for those who loss their spouse like Abraham did. He could have said he was old, and there was no point to it. But instead, the one whom God referred to as His friend married again. There are several advantages to this. It kept Abraham active and this prolonged his life. He now has something new to look forward to, a companion to share fellowship with and one to meet his needs as a man. And this union produced five more children - I see these as five more possibilities. 

"She gave birth to Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak, and Shuah."(Gen.25.2) 

This is certainly not addressing divorced couples but it also does not exclude them. You life should not be truncated because you made a mistake. Pick yourself up, dust yourself up and let life begin again. 

"But if they can't manage their desires and emotions, they should by all means go ahead and get married. The difficulties of marriage are preferable by far to a sexually tortured life as a single." (1Cor.7.9) 

Good day,
Have a great day today, 
Emmanuel Okoro 
(aka Mr. Lift)

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