Be gracious in your speech

When people talk down at you in a conversation it is probably because that's where they are. So they hope to bring you down to their level to communicate with you. But that should never be your aim. Be gracious in your speech. 

Choose your words wisely. Do not be facetious with your words. Once spoken, they cannot be retrieved. Words have the power to make or mar. Sticks and stones may break your bones but words can break your spirit. Because words are a spirit so be gracious with your words. 

"Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out". (Col.4.6) 

The goal of your speech should be to bring out the best in people. When you make that your goal, you may not get the result instantly, but over time even the person you are addressing would have a rethinking 

"A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger". (Prov.15.1) 

The wise king Solomon opined that a soft answer turns away wrath. Sometimes it is not what is said, but how it is said that makes all the difference. Be gracious with your words. 

When you spew out hateful, hurtful words, the tendency is for the other person to reciprocate with such words except for those who are wise enough to know that the essence of a conversation is to bring out the best in others. We will all be better for it if we all learn to be gracious with our words. 

Good day,
And have a great day today,
EmmA (aka Mr. Lift)
@Liftemma

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