Father - daughter relationship

Father - daughter relationship 

"When a woman makes a vow to GOD and binds herself by a pledge as a young girl still living in her father's house, and her father hears of her vow or pledge but says nothing to her, then she has to make good on all her vows and pledges. But if her father holds her back when he hears of what she has done, none of her vows and pledges are valid. GOD will release her since her father held her back." (Num.30.3 -5) 

The influence of a father in the life of his children, his daughter to be precise, cannot be overstated. Hence, God gives him the permission to either agree or cancel a vow or pledge that she enters into without his consent. 

God says if a young girl - that is, a girl of any age, still living under her father's roof. So that, age was not what determined whether the girl is young or not. But that she still lives under her father's roof is the determining factor. That means the father is able to properly cover his daughter in every sense of the word. 

And if she binds herself with a vow, it means that a vow binds you. If you make a vow, you are surely bound to fulfill it. 

God says if the father hears of this vow and says nothing, the daughter has to make good on her vow and pledge. But if the father hears of it and does not agree, even God releases the daughter from the vow and pledge. Fathers need to step up and be able to guide their daughters away from certain vows. 

Absentee fathers have suffered too many young girls to enter into vow - relationship - that they were not prepared for. When you hear of the girl who skipped her examinations to prepare food for her sick boyfriend, you'd have to ask where are the fathers? Father's behold your daughter, what relationship do you have with her? Cover her

Good day,
Have a great day today,
Dr. Emmanuel Okoro,
(aka Dr. Lift)

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